Luberry Sleep Counseling — there may be tears, but never alone

My story

I know what those nights feel like.

A mother's hand cradling her toddler's small hand, close up

When I became a mother, I didn't know a person could be this tired and keep going.

The nights blurred into one another. I woke, and fed, and rocked, and held — and then did it all again. My body ached. My thoughts felt slow and foggy. Some days I felt like I was disappearing a little, underneath the exhaustion.

And yet I loved my baby so completely. When my baby cried, everything in me wanted to go to them. Being close, holding them, answering their call — that felt like the most natural thing in the world.

Leaving my baby alone to cry was not something I felt comfortable doing.

But I was depleted. Overwhelmed. Unsure how much longer I could continue without proper rest.

So I searched for answers. And it seemed that wherever I looked, the message was the same: if you want more sleep, you have to let your baby cry it out.

I believed I had two choices. Stop responding to my baby's cries — or accept that extreme sleep deprivation was simply part of motherhood.

Neither felt right.

At the time, I didn't realise that other approaches to sleep support existed.

Discovering another way

[In your own words: how you came to learn that responsive sleep support was possible. What did you read, who did you meet, what shifted?]

What changed for us

[Optional: share honestly what changed in your family — without implying the same outcome for everyone.]

My training

I'm trained and certified in gentle sleep counseling. Before this I worked as a primary school teacher, where my real curiosity was always child development — watching how children grow, and meeting each one exactly where they are. That's the same lens I bring to your family: curiosity first, no assumptions, and no pretending there's one right way for every child.

That experience is the reason I do this work.

I want mothers who feel exhausted, confused, or trapped between their own needs and their baby's needs to know that they have options.

I can offer understanding, guidance, and an approach that makes space for both your baby's needs and your own.

Because I remember what it felt like to think there was no other way.

Why Luberry

Mi Luca. Mi Luca Lou. Mi Luberry.

Luca is the baby I held in the dark, wondering whether there was another way.

Luberry is what I call him. This work carries his name, because it started with him.

If this feels familiar, I'd love to hear from you.

No pressure, no judgement. Just a conversation between two people who understand.

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